There should be no mystery to what Cocktail Dress calls for in a suit. Because of the invitations language, men don't realize it means Business Attire. In other words, wear your best suit and dressiest tie. Cocktail Dress falls right after White Tie and a side step from Black Tie while being entirely appropriate for funerals and other formal occasions. So men don't realize what it really means.
There are several important items that make up a "cocktail dress" outfit. Remember the three most important core items: 1. Dark suit 2. white dress shirt 3. dark tie. Lastly you should wear dark shoes-brown shows with a navy or charcoal suit. To pull off the look, wear clean shoes, simple white pocket square, and over the calf socks. A bow tie is acceptable in this scenario. No cummerbund set- save for the tuxedo. Don't wear bright ties or shirts. Wear a VERY subtle stripe suit as an option to a solid or subtle pattern. Less pattern is more.
If your invitation states a semi-formal or formal attire, these are vague and challenging dress codes to deal with today because they mean different things to different people. In the past, formal attire was a tuxedo, while semi-formal would be like cocktail attire. These days the ambiguity of these dress codes can make them frustrating for guests.
The occasion of a wedding or party/ gala is the time to wear the subdued clothing and ties. Do not wear khakis, or business casual attire or a sportcoat. And unless the wedding is at a beach, socks are a requirement. You are always safe to wear the dress code suggested. And if its a more casual event, wear a lighter shade suit with the brighter ties. In winter you can even wear a flannel suit. And for more casual events, this is the time to experiment with shirts & ties you have. Look at our GALLERY to see colors and combinations that you like together. In this more casual setting, you can opt a red carnation in place of a pocket square. A timeless windowpane suit makes for a great cocktail attire choice. A solid suit and soft stripe suit will match the elegance for the occasion. When in doubt, wear a tie.
Learn more about the event, look at the time and location. You can wear a seersucker suit to a lawn party at a plantation calling for cocktail attire. You would not wear that to summer party in the city. If a social group or club is involved, then always dress the code. Better to show up in a tuxedo to a bowling alley than a wedding in your bowling shoes. Dress code matters.
When cocktail attire is called for as the dress code at your next event, now you know what you need to wear to look and feel great. At a wedding, try to be properly dressed without being too flashy and always keep the bride and groom in mind. For cocktail parties and receptions, leave your business navies and grays in the closet and add a splash of color. I hope I provided you with some food for thought for cocktail attire for your next reception – have fun and enjoy the company and drinks!
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